Showing love to the single mothers and dads

When I was little I though of getting married (I had my wedding gown in my mind like I had designed it myself and I used to tell my sibling about it) I dreamt of raising one big happy family, it was never my plan nor dream to raise my kids alone. But shit happens and when it happened I was caught of guard (unprepared)…am not the only one we are many single mother or rather call us the name you so badly want to name us, but one thing you all don’t know about single mothers is this…whatever the situations and circumstances that made us who we are it made us strong for we are zealous, we have fought many battles alone only our pillows can narrate our pain.
I remember when I gave birth to my second born baby I was not sure I was going to raise a human being all by myself… I felt worthless, I felt betrayed, I felt anger and above all I was disappointed with myself I actually though of the society I thought of what they will name me and talk about me I thought I had lost it all I was depressed I was ashamed I was angry with everyone around me…
At time I could fake my smile but I was dying inside I only needed the earth to swallow me but when I though of my First born baby, Liam I just couldn’t help but fight another day I had to face each day with a smile for him and for the baby on its way I just had to be strong for them with all the pain and heartache I had to do it for them I had to act strong for them… (Stick around for more of my stories and how you can heal from a break up).
So my Friends whenever you see a single mum struggling to make sure she provides for her babies remember there is a battle she alone is strongly fighting and so instead of judging her give her a hug its all she needs.
To all single mum over there…am here to support you am here to show you love and remind you, you are not alone keep on fighting, keep on raising that child in the right manner I believe we can do this

• Are you a single mum what are the challenges you face as a single mum let me know…(leave your comment or rather send me a mail I don’t mind)

• Were you raised by a single mum how was it…? (Leave your comment or mail me)

• Do you know of any single mum around you…? What have you done to help her erase the pain she is going through or are you among those judging them(comment or leave me a mail)

• Finally are you a deadbeat dad?? What makes you different from a drunkard man…(don’t take it at heart but they are the reason most mothers are single women right so if you are or you know of one leave a comment or send me mail I know what makes you or him a dead beat dad)

N/B:single mum’s or rather single parents need love not your criticism
So are single dad’s, in fact thumbs up to all single dad out there you are a rare species

Hope to you will be sticking around for I will be telling you more about single mums that you did not know .I love you all
(let’s stay connected I hope to see lots of comment and like and share)

Kindly remember prayers is key and you can also check out how my sister has managed to make me erase the pain I was felt on my YouTube channel



Who are you?? I tend to get this question frequently, and let me be honest I kinder like it when am asked such question because zipporah is not just enough that is my name tag who am I ? Who are you?? What can you say about yourself???

I missed you

Am so certain that you missed me too sorry have neglected my blog lately,but am I to be blamed???

Oooh yes am to be blamed have been so attached to my YouTube channel forgetting that I have you guys here

Again am sorry

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Let’s talk do you ever feel like you are the black sheep in the family if yes kindly respond to my email we will talk it out am looking forward to hear from you I love you so much


Keep trusting in the Lord and do what is right in his eyes. Fix your heart on the promises of God and you will be secure, feasting on his faithfulness. Make God the utmost delight and pleasure of your life, and he will provide for you what you desire the most. Give God the right to direct your life, and as you trust him along the way you’ll find he pulled it off perfectly! He will appear as your righteousness, as sure as the dawning of a new day. He will manifest as your justice, as sure and strong as the noonday sun. Quiet your heart in his presence and pray; keep hope alive as you long for God to come through for you. And don’t think for a moment that the wicked in their prosperity are better off than you.

Psalms 37:3‭-‬7 TPT

Let your light shine


Before I begin writing this I want to thank all those people who contributed to my pain if it wasn’t for you I wouldn’t have know I was a flower that only needed light to bloom…”asanteni Sana”
Most of the time we condemn those who are the cause of our pain, ever thought of blessing them instead. Today I sat down and thought of our God he is our heavenly father I thought of so many times I have let him down the a thousand times I have sin and despite all my sins he still sees me as his child he loves me no matter what I do its true am not a saint but he still calls me his son. I sat down and embraced my son ship it a rare thing right but believe me when you realize the weight the name son means and not just any son but our heavenly father’s son then you will learn to let go of anything that is pulling you back and embrace the title son.

Yes am a light from a bitter flower and do you know why because despite the pain, the heartache I underwent last year I still come out victorious I still shine….

Don’t let anyone steal your light. It doesn’t matter what you’ve been through it doesn’t matter how your life is a mess dear once you can recollect yourself water yourself up with everything good and just bloom you are a son and therefore nothing or none can stop you from blooming from shinning if you can’t do it for yourself then do it for those people who are looking up on you remember you are a son and sons always light up the world.
I love all of you immensely

My book is on its way Light from a bitter flower